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The best way to get ex back

is to have them wanting to get you back.  After all, learning how to get ex back for any reason other than love will never work.  Fake love is never really worth it, if you are planning to get ex back who dumped you because of your unhealthy ways. Just think if what you’re doing is right.  We often see people that are so overwhelmed that in their effort to get ex back they are willing to do anything, be anything, just to accomplish this goal.

Get Your Ex Back Fact

The fact is, 90 percent of the time there is no reason why you cannot get your ex back after a break up. Providing that you know what steps are necessary to  win your ex back.  The reality is, most of the time, there is absolutely no reason why you cannot get ex back after a break up. While begging, pleading and promising is the route many people take when trying to get ex back. It is also the way that is most likely to lead to disaster.

Doing things that make you look like you are ready to move on and that you aren’t trying to get ex back works better.  Trying to trick him by making him jealous is one of the oldest tricks in the book and one that many women use to try to get ex back. It is also one that backfires the most.

Get Ex Back or Move On

Almost nearly every adult has experienced some kind of a break up. Most just work on moving on rather than looking for a way to get ex back.  No matter what the reason was that led to the breakup, you need to get the specifics figured out so that you can deal with the situation if it should ever come up again. You can get your ex back if you know how. But if you want to make it work on a long term basis, you need to figure out what went wrong in the first place.

It’s Time

Although, sometimes relationships just come to an end prior to the time a person feels it should. In that case people try to do almost anything to repair and salvage that relationship. Sometimes they try to get ex back fast when what they really need is time to sort things through to get ex back.

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Sandy asks…

What are my chances with my ex, getting her back?

Well, I was with this girl for over a year and we split cause had some issues. Wasn’t that long after, approximately one month, I called her up and told her that I was sorry for everything and that I loved her with all my heart. She came to me a couple days later and said she met someone else. She said she had feelings for this guy. She had only known him about 15 days till this point. She told me that she still loves me too, but she can’t leave this guy because of a certain circumstance. He was just arrested the night before, for a fight, is in jail and (cause he is here on a VISA) may be deported. Two months have passed since this happened and everyday me and her talk for hours on the phone. I tell her I love her and she says she can’t say that it to me, but yes she has strong feelings for me. We also see each other all the time, well really cause we do work around each other, but after work we go and get something to eat. Next thing shocked me, yes we have a kiss here and there, but in the last 3 weeks or so we have been intimate more than 3 times. She still says to m that she can’t make any decision yet, she is gong on vacation and will be gone for about 3 weeks and it will help her clear her head and to focus. You know how you can look at our significant other and see that love in their eyes and actions with you, well I see it daily from her. In her gaze, the way her voice is, the way she kisses me. Does anyone think I may get her back? I love her with all my heart. Most people say get over her, give up, if you love something and set free and it comes back its meant to be… But truely, what are my chances?

TimB answers:

I see this a lot. She has all the power and control in this relationship and that’s the way she wants it. If she really loves you then the thought of losing you will make her panic.

I think the best thing for you to do is play it cool. Tell her you understand if she is not ready to make a commitment and that you two can part friends.

Then be polite but distant. If she cares about you she will pursue you. If she doesn’t, she will let you go and you will be better off in the long run.

But this is for certain – if you chase her you will chase her away.

Good luck.

Michael asks…

I’m trying to get my ex back but may have went overboard a little. What do I do now?

For the record I dumped him because I was scared and because I thought he was too good to be true. I know it was stupid. But I texted him and told him I was sorry and I wanted to be his friend. Then we talked for a few hours. This was the 22nd. Well he said the next day he would be busy, but for me to call at 9 because his minutes were free then. Well I told him to call me. But something came up and he couldn’t. I texted him a few times the next day (I wished I hadn’t) maybe 4. But I finally called and asked why he didn’t call. And I also said if you can’t be friends with me and it’s too hard, then just say so. But if you are just busy, then just tell me. And he texted to explain. He told me he missed me a lot, and that he wanted to get together sometime. Should I be worried just because he’s a little distant. And how long do I need to wait till I tell him how I feel. I only said I wanted to be friends (I want to be more but I couldn’t say it then because I was scared so I made him think being friends was all I wanted). Can I just wait a few days and just call then and tell him. I’m not making excuses. I really want to know what you all think. How long do I need to wait. And don’t say don’t call because I know it’s a risk of getting heartbroken, but I think I should try. He’s also told me he missed me a lot and that he wanted to get together sometime even if it was just hanging around home. And he wants to give me a xmas present. I thought of just waiting till sunday (haven’t made contact since wednesday christmas) and then calling and telling him how I feel. Is that okay? And Am i just freaking out for no reason thinking he hates me?

TimB answers:

Back off and try to be friends and see how it goes from there if nothing happens then move on

Donna asks…

How can i get my ex girlfriend back?

Me and my ex broke up a couple days ago, she said it would be best if we just cut it off right now..i didnt agree, im in love with her. She says she just wants to have fun and be free and she doesnt want to constantly watch her back with a boyfriend. So she broke up with me..i love her i treat her amazing and i didnt want to break up. We have been going out for 2 years…so anyone, let me know how i can get her back or if i even should try and get her back, thanks.

TimB answers:

Im sure that she does love you too.
Its just that, when your in a relationship with someone for a really long time, you kinda feel that you should explore a little more. You dont want to be stuck with a boyfriend, and when your friends are single, its much worse, because they go boy hunting or whatever, or say like ‘oh that guy is cute’ but you cant really say anything cause your in a little bubble called a relationship.
I think you should give her time, & if she realizes that all she really wants is you she will come back to you.
Also i think you should go out for fun with some girls, and experince other people too.

William asks…

My ex gets back in touch with me, what should i do?

Its been almost 3years since we broke up, we were still young then,
she had been in 2 relationships since then, 1 of it last for 2years and was recently broken[they had never met, the reasons they break is that guy went to USA]..
it all started when she called me a week ago, midnight while she revise for her upcoming exams..then only i know she is single again since last month..at the end she asked me to help her in the exam since my grade was good.
Me and my friend teach ed them[with some of her friends which I also knew] for 2days straight.
We had been texting and talking almost all the time till now..
Im confuse as she told me she missed me, of course i asked why, and she reply ‘don’t bother, im crazy’. and before that, while we were group studyin, she joted down ‘love me don’t go’ ‘if i become a memory’ which are some songs title in chinese and had me read it, but wouldn’t let my friend translate it[i can't read chinese very well].
overall, she’s just acting weird and making me very confused..
im wondering if she’s just using me to mend her heart or simply wants me to comfort her or pretending im her ex…as i think that the chance for her to come back to me is slim, because when we broke up, i set her free, but i beg her to come back, i was probably wrong that time..
So, what should i do now? it seems very messed up..

TimB answers:

Follow you heart on this one. She might just be looking for comfort. Caue if she wanted the real you, then she would approach you differently. Not desperatly

Laura asks…

What can I do to stop my ex from collecting child support when we have joint custody but she gets welfare?

The judge said we both have 50/50 legal & physical custody, however he allowed me to have my daughter almost 24 more hours every week (weird, but I was fine with that). Before that order she had physical custody and had already been collecting welfare, and by default welfare takes child support from me. So aslong as shes collecting welfare I must pay child support even though we have joint custody aaaand even though I have my daughter physically more time than her.
I found out that according to the welfare she appears in their records as being the parent with control over our daughter because that was before the latest court order where we got 50/50…
what can I do???
Can I report that to the welfare and maybe they’ll stop giving her free money?
(she also has a boyfriend who buys my daughter things like jewelry, idk if that helps prove that she has someone helping her financially and disqualify her from welfare)
or should I just try and get full custody of my daughter(which I would hate to do for my daughters sake taking her from her mom) because obviously my ex is sitting back and getting free checks from the Gov. and cant get a job because of her felony so Im stuck paying back the money she’s taking from the state!!
what can I do???
I live in CA and will soon be getting married, idk if that would help if I fought for full custody…
One of the biggest reasons this buggs me is because she was caught smuggling drugs into a prison, while being a drug user heself in the past, and now aparently no one hires her because of her felony…so the way I look at it, her reward for commiting a felony is getting free money from welfare…while Ive never even gotten a speeding ticket have to pay the consequences…

TimB answers:

Contact welfare and tell them of her changed status. You might get some relief. Unfortunately you’re probably still going to have to pay child support because you make more than she does. They don’t care about 50/50 custody. They don’t care about how much money her boyfriend makes. He is not legally responsible for your daughter’s welfare, so he could be a millionaire and they won’t look at his income.

Full custody for you is unlikely. Most states won’t do that unless the situation is extreme (parent has done serious harm to child).

California is notoriously bad for screwing men out of money and letting women just sit on their a$$es. She could get a job if she wanted. McDonalds and Walmart are always hiring. My state is starting to wake up and figure out how much welfare women could make based on past employment, and base the support on that instead of letting them just sit around doing nothing. But as long as you make more than she does, you ‘re going to have to pay child support. My dad had nearly full custody (his 3rd ex had their kids 2 weekends a month) and he STILL paid support.

Sorry I don’t have better news.

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